Wednesday, October 17, 2012
Everything changed for the Baxter sisters last spring. Lacey blew it with Henry her lifelong crush, only to discover a blooming relationship with her best friend, Chase. While he picked her up and put her back together, they grew closer over the summer. Now that school has started, he’s found popularity thanks to his band Cate’s Ashes, and he’s hiding secret phone calls and text messages. Plus, did his ex-girlfriend just appear out of the blue at his show? Forcing Lacey to wonder if he’s over the feelings he pronounced for her at the beginning of summer. Add to the tension, a realization and secret of her own to keep about her worse enemy. Lacey vows to be the bigger person and keep Byron’s revelation, but what will it cost?
Meanwhile, as Lana tries to find herself again after her suicide attempt, she’s befriended by the school’s resident bad girl, Britt, and new chicano boy, Tomas, in the same week. Britt offers unconditional acceptance that Lana didn’t realize she craved, while Tomas brings out the best in her, and makes her feel alive again. Britt is dangerous and daring, while Tomas exudes security and safety. Vices come easily when you are already addicted to something you crave, and Lana muddles through figuring out who she wants to be.
With their parents constantly arguing, and their dad moving into the guest bedroom, the pressure on the girls may explode destroying them all. Is there a place for happiness when their world is crumbling around them?
This is a story about a girl, named Mia. She grew up in suburb of medium sized city. There were cold winters, and hot sticky summers. Mia’s favorite seasons were spring and fall. She enjoyed the mild seasons, but also loved the vibrant colors each possessed.
Mia loved music. She didn’t just love it, she sat on the floor in front of her Casio stereo for hours at a time, recording songs off the radio. Then she would cue them up and make sure she only got the music as she recorded them on a second tape, without the DJ’s voices on them, just the music. Then she would listen to those songs absorbing the words as she sat in her room and wrote her poetry.
She wrote her first Poem when she was thirteen. It was called Sands of Time. When she was sixteen and again when she was eighteen she won two state competitions for her poetry. Her Poetry was stories of roses, starry nights, love, loss, and the scars left behind. She found recourse in those private moments filling notebooks of her writings. As she grew so did her inspirations, and when ever it hit her the rest of the world melted away until her verses were written, alive in the world. Even today as Mia writes mostly YA fiction, poetry still holds a special place in her heart. Her love for all things words propels her forward in her pursuit of the next great story.
It’s Just a Test
I met my first bully in second grade. Every day during
morning recess he would punch me in the stomach. I would come home crying each
night. One evening after my grandmother had spoken multiple times with the school;
she turned to me and said “He’s just a test. God is testing your patience. Once
you pass the test, he’ll leave you alone.” The next day, when he punched me, I
straightened up and looked him square in the eye and said “You’re just a test,
and I’m going to pass you.” He stopped
punching me.
There were other moments through junior high, where both boys and girls said embarrassing things to me in front of the class. But in high school, there was this girl, who took as many opportunities as she could to knock me down emotionally. Like the time she told me I looked like a fat Minnie Driver in Circle of Friends. My response was, “Maybe I’ll get someone as cute as Chris O’Donnell, too.” She didn't know that the comment did to me what she intended; it humiliated me. Then there was the time she read out loud to me a note of what some upper class-men had written about me. She told me she felt I had a right to know what people were saying. She didn't pull me aside to talk about this note; she announced it in front of all of her friends and some of mine, embarrassing me on the spot.
Then there was the chubby boy that enjoyed intimidating me countless times. He made comments about my appearance and how snobby I was. I wasn't a snob; I was shy.
Many experiences like these compiled with personal family issues meant that I hid my deep depression. Superficially I smiled, laughed and joked a lot, but inside I believed them and questioned my self-worth. I didn't talk to my friends about it. My school community was small, and everyone was “friends” with everyone. I didn't think that they would understand. I was tormented every day, by people who I thought were my friends and people who I knew weren't.
Now, here’s the hard part of this post to write. I have many
regrets about my high school experience. Two of the biggest regrets are that I
stood by when I witnessed other kids get picked on, and even participated in putting others down. I
laughed when they were made fun of, and tore them down making them feel the
same as I did. I’m ashamed of this behavior. For a long time I justified the
way I was treated and the way I treated others as “Kids are mean.” And though
that’s true, that’s not an excuse.
Something has to change. Before that can happen, we must
acknowledge that the system is broken. Our children must be taught the rules of
kindness and compassion. Standing up for
someone is not the wrong decision.
They say bullies pick on the weak, but I think it’s the
other way around. It takes a strong brave kid to get up every morning and go to
school knowing that they’re going to be singled out and humiliated or harmed at
some point that day. Those kids are my heroes. When you think that you can’t
take anymore, hear my words, “This is a test, and you will pass it.” In five years,
these people won’t matter to your life; don’t let them matter now.
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1 comments:
I know exactly how it feels to be bullied - at 23, people still try to do it to me. I've had to learn how to laugh at them, to turn their insults back against them and then to carry on. Even when I was at school I'd rip back verbally - a mask only very few people knew to see through.
Even now, bullying is something I can't stand to see happen. It hurts too much and brings back too many memories.
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